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Online Dating: Tips for Meeting Someone Online

Amaga — Tue, 18 Sep 2007 05:02:16 +0000

There are situations in life that make us realize it is quite difficult meeting new people now than it used to be. When you are already mature, have adult children that have left home and loneliness is pressing you all the time, you want to find a perfect mate for you. You even dream at your relationship with him/her in your lonely nights. It’s then that you understand that it’s hard for one to meet people between work and home, and if you are looking forward having a serious relationship, you must exclude bars and all things of that sort.

Well, you shouldn’t get desperate and lose hope, because the right person for you is out there, looking for you too. The only problem is to find him/her, but that implies taking risks. And, yes, there are ways of solving this situation.
Online dating services might be one of them. Today, there are a lot of legitimate, trustful online dating sites that have solved this problem for many people. Still, before giving too much of your information online, consider how much time have you known or how much have you talked to that person, think about it twice and be conscious that there is enough danger out there. “The one” might be “not the one” after all, even with all our efforts to think the contrary. So, be cautious when dating online.
When you still set out a real date with an online potential “friend”, set it out in a public place and, if it is possible, don’t come alone. Ask a friend or a member of the family to join you in case your date doesn’t turn out as it should. Apart from all that you were said, you might have no idea of who is on the other side of the computer.
Another way of meeting new people, besides online dating, would be to join special classes. This could be cooking or sport classes.
And one more thing is that you should remember: dating someone implies having fun and enjoying the company of your partner most of all, so never forget it.

For Sex Tonight, Which is the Best Online Dating Site?

Amaga — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 19:34:35 +0000

If your aim is to find a real partner, with whom you could have sex tonight, you will not be satisfied by free or second best online dating sites, but only by the really best online dating site. You MUST choose the top one.

My aim here is to let you know about what this best site is (I prefer it for all the rest of the sites), unlike other so called dating sites you have already tried and that, obviously, have let you unsatisfied on all the plans while also taking your money.
First of all, you must know that dating sites are only business and money is the main factor here. Nobody will be that kind as to get you laid for free, there is no magic and no free fairy sex mothers. A so called free online dating site will charge you later anyway, and, more of all, let you frustrated and sexually unsatisfied.
I personally consider that the members of the best online dating site should have only one thing in mind: that is to get sex. Possibly, a stable relationship, love or marriage later, but the first aim of all of them should be to get laid.
Once we have settled that, let’s continue with some basic preparations for you don’t want any high discussions about art or sciences with the members of the service tonight, do you? All you want is to have sex tonight.
The first one: uploading a high quality picture of yourself is absolutely NECESSARY if your aim is to attract a lot of hot-looking members of the opposite sex. Now the best options would be for people to see you naked or well-dressed in the photo, nothing in between!
An advice for the guys: it’s a lot better if instead of muscle shirts, you would wear NO shirts at all. Or just be dressed up in some elegant classy clothes. The best of all would be no clothes at all, but that comes only with the condition if you are in excellent shape and have a nice body to show. Besides, that will also show that you are brave since you did it and women will adore you.
And, finally, the same advice comes for women: you will be swimming in men’s attention if you upload NAKED PICTURES of you on the site. You will be looked for day and night, believe me. That will be an advantage for you when you will come to choose from all these countless men.
So let all the low quality dating sites aside, log on to the best online dating site that exists today and enjoy sex tonight.
This is the site I’ve been talking about and which I recommend you to visit: datingsites2.com

Dating a Former Beauty Queen

Amaga — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 05:28:22 +0000

Probably the worst, and in the same time, the best thing that has ever happened to me was to fall in love with an ex-beauty queen. Her beauty was faded, but she never forgot her “good times” of glory. She knew perfectly well how to make a man happy by causing him pleasure and in the next second she could bring him pain and make him the unhappiest man in the world. She was the master of pleasure and pain, and she also had impressive life experience and wisdom, which I was willing to share too.

She had traveled a lot all over the world, knew all about the etiquette and followed it, and she was a gourmet. I could only be delighted and hypnotized just being next to her for she was a woman of very high culture. She was also very good in bed; there was nothing she wouldn’t do for you if only you asked her. When I asked her where she had learn all that, she told me that she was taught by many rich playboys and also that she has been a member of the jet set when she was young.
I am an independent and rich man, with a lot of opportunities and desires. One of them is to have near me a woman who could stimulate, and there is nothing better for me than spend time having sexist doesn’t matter the time of the day. But this doesn’t mean I will be submissive to anyone, because I think that in a couple, both the partners must know how to give and how to take. I do both of the things and want my partner to do the same.
A former beauty queen that has lost her beauty and is too stubborn to deny it is the worst kind of woman a man can meet. There were times, of course, when she was powerful and could do all she wanted with men for they were ready to satisfy every whim and wish of hers. If they didn’t do it, her bedroom wouldn’t be open for them anymore. But every thing has its end on earth and if the beauty queen doesn’t understand that her time has gone and if she doesn’t use it in her own interests, she will remain alone for good.
If you have ever played poker, you must for sure know that you can’t stay in the game with a bad hand, because you will lose the game. You must play the game when you have a good hand, only then you can win. There is wisdom in this game, because these are life’s rules too. There are some famous words from a song that say: “You got to know when to hold and know when to fold” – these lyrics are valid for faded beauty queens. It’s time for them to fold.

Conclusion To: Male and Female Brain Differences and How They Affect Dating

Amaga — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 18:52:45 +0000

One of the main differences between men and women is that men are considered to be the more aggressive of the two sexes, if not the only aggressive sex. Now this is wrong, because not only men have aggressive circuits-women had them too, except that they use them in a different way. When resolving a conflict, a man will want to resolve it by physical power, women would resolve it by talking or even by applying psychology. They would more frequently use the phrase “stop being selfish” than actually try to dominate by using physical power. This thing can be explained by the fact that men’s sex and aggression centers are larger than women’s. Moreover, if our society would have been totally led by women, there would be verbal and psychological manipulation instead of physical force. But nowadays, this age of physical domination (6000bc to 2000ad ?) is coming to an end, as we see more and more men using persuasion in politics or business. Women are beginning to attain power. But, of course, even during this age of physical domination, there were exceptions. There had existed matriarchal societies, but, unfortunately, very little is known about them.

Body Language is a very important skill, which a man needs to develop, unlike women who have always been masters at this and also at mimicry and at the tone of their voice-these skills are natural and normal in them. That’s why when a man wants to be successful at women and in dating, he should be able to keep up with women at what body language, voice tonality, facial expression and so on mean.
Many times both men and women expect their partners to behave like them and even try to change them, which isn’t right at all and which is, besides, all in vain. To change your partner implies changing his/her brain structure that differentiates men and women. These basic brain functions can never be changed, even if new skills are acquired and there is desire to change them. We have to accept that men and women are very different: women like to talk much, men often don’t like to spend too many words; women put romance above all, men put sex above all. All these tendencies are just a normal state of things.
Men and women are so different that even when one sex beats the opposite one in something, it doesn’t matter in what-when men beat women in etiquette or when women beat men in computer games, the parts of the brain used, which are responsible for these functions or functions alike, differ at men and women. There has been done an experiment: the brains of both men and women doing IQ tests have been scanned and the results have revealed that even with the same tests results, females use different aspects of their brain to solve the same problems as men.
Do what we do, the two sexes will always remain as they are: opposite and different, so we should accept this and respect this difference for developing good and successful relationships and that includes dating too.

9 Unique Ideas for Dates

Amaga — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 01:21:57 +0000

It is really important to plan a beautiful date for it embellishes and consolidates one’s relationship. But even more important is to plan it according to the preferences and tastes of both the partners. The following ideas represent some great date ideas for all the styles and interests:

For Adventure Seekers
If you like speed, then try a racing of cars.
Sail away on a raft.
Go spelunking together, but only if you are not afraid of heights.
For Homebodies
Make a TV night by watching, for example, the show you like the most on DVD.
Be a child when playing different games together.
Make a dinner (supper, breakfast etc.) together.
For Those Who Love to Learn
Take classes of poetry and book reading.
Pretend you’re still at school and revise some of your favorite subjects.
Go to cooking classes both of you.
For Sports Lovers
Take classes of different sports, such as golf and scuba diving.
Play volleyball, Frisbee or other pickup games in the park.
Prepare everything for watching a sports game together.
For Artistic Types
Invite your partner to an art show.
Painting together is a lot of fun, try ceramics.
Learn how to make pottery.
For Travel Buffs
Make an unprivileged child happy by taking him to the circus or to a ballgame.
Be a volunteer at the hospital.
Organize a bingo night for the local senior people.
For Family Lovers
Take your partner to a ride in the car.
Prepare a vacation only for the two of you.
Leave the place where you live for a weekend.
For Charity Givers
Think of a great family dinner and cook it together.
Organize a night of playing charades.
Meet your friends and make double dates.
For True Romantics
Make reservations for a B&B getaway.
Surprise your partner by going out to a candlelight dinner.
Learn how to make a back massage or a foot rubs and apply it as often as possible.

12 Things Women Don’t know about men

Amaga — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 18:53:47 +0000

1. You’d wish us to court you by sending messenger pigeons instead of dating you online, courting you in public or proposing you blind dates. Well, we’re over the pigeons.
2. There are stupid things that once are said by us usually come back to torture us. They should be limited in time. A 24-hours limitation sounds good for me.

3. No, we wouldn’t like to communicate with the women in Maxim we like to look at, at least not for a long time.
4. We don’t bother the childish and foolish names you put us as long as this doesn’t happen in front of the guys.
5. Why care so much about what you’re wearing on (we don’t) when you look a lot better when you don’t wear a thing?
6. We don’t fight with our male friend, that’s why we are so discontented when we do it with you.
7. Don’t think we are ungrateful, we really appreciate all the time, thoughts and effort it takes you to cook dinner for a man. Buying flowers for a woman is much easier, so thank you.
8. Your shoe fetish is a thing we can neither understand nor accept, so don’t ask us to respect it.
9. Yes, we cannot read your minds, but have you known that it is impossible according to the laws of nature? Anyway, if this is a reason for you to get angry at us, why shouldn’t you get angry at yourself because you cannot fly?
10. Jessica Alba is really hot and we unfortunately admit it (sometimes).
11. You usually believe your guy friends when they tell you that your new boyfriend is a jerk and that might probably be the truth. And after this, why not want to marry one of these nice guy friends once they open your eyes about the jerk?
12. Being with no makeup on doesn’t make you ugly, it even looks better than with the makeup on.

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7 Tips for Dating Older Woman

Amaga — Thu, 26 Jul 2007 17:21:00 +0000

There is an evident advantage in dating older women since they have a lot more experience, they have a mature point of view upon things and they are even financially independent. Moreover, they are also good lovers and the relationship with an older woman doesn’t reveal all the complications that appear in a relationship with a younger one.
For years and centuries there had existed couples of young men and older women. At first, it was shameful for the couple to admit it, because people would usually not understand, but nowadays this isn’t a problem anymore. Some of the reasons why an older woman becomes attractive to a young man are that she’s mature and she doesn’t bother the opinion of other people.
Every thing has its good and its bad parts. Therefore, before dating an older woman, one must be aware of the bad parts too.
Usually an older woman has a lot of life experience. She has possibly passed through many relationships, marriages, divorces, she might have children. That’s why there is the impression that she’s often controlling and manipulating you since she knows a lot more than you do. All these lead to continuous gossips, talks and misunderstandings from the part of your friends. Of course, other friends may consider you a hero.
There are good parts too. One of them is that an older woman is more experienced in relationships between men and women, she’s aware of the fact that the most important thing in a relationship is communication between the partners and mutual understanding. And she’s looking for a man that is aware of that too, unlike younger women that need a man to take care of them. An older woman will always tell you straight in the face what she thinks about this and that, her sincerity can often avoid different conflicts.
If you’re looking forward dating an older woman, you must find one that is interested in a young man in her turn. And once you have settled a date with her, you mustn’t miss your chance. These are the tips that will help you to attract her.
You must show you’re unlike other men of your age, so surprise her with a new place and take her to a concert, jazz club or an exotic restaurant.
Show her you can give her things that people of her age cannot, that also includes excitement in and out of the bed. Try to be spontaneous. Usually women like her are not looking for serious relationships; they are just looking for fun and for a great time to spend with you.
Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Just be yourself and nobody else. Once she has accepted to date you it means that she likes you the way you are.
Never make comparisons between her and your ex. By means of showing her how much you are interested about her and how important she is for you, you will be able to make her feel comfortable and at ease with your presence.
Be creative and innovative when it comes to your discussions. Try not to talk about age, ask her, instead, of her preferences, hobbies, career and so on. Know how to inspire her confidence when you will be listening to her.
She may probably have children and has had a family too, but which, somehow, failed. So she won’t be in a hurry to make another one. Don’t rush on her and accept the complications which come with dating her.
Your style of life must be like hers. For example, know that an older woman would never wake you up in the middle of the night and ask what you are thinking of.
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10 Tips to Getting a Second Date and Beyond

Amaga — Wed, 18 Jul 2007 05:16:26 +0000

It seems that the main problem for singles is not how to meet people but how to maintain the relation after the first dates. How can men keep their manhood without being too dominant? How can women let men know they are interested without appearing too confident?

For many men is a surprise when they learn that even the most called liberated woman says that it is ok and even needed for men to be the one who pursue the relationship, especially in critical beginning steps.

Many women, priding themselves on being independent, understood that this is not so good for a relationship, it is not the way to keep a men interested. Like any other human being, man has to be needed, to be recognized. And how can he feel pleased rather then to offer some specific masculine “services”. So, those too independent women are advised to let men play their role: ex offering their protection or support. But also women should not forget that attaining the unattainable is a sport for many men; it is what drives them.

Sometimes women are too quick to open themselves, in term of time, emotions or physically. And this can be detrimental to them. In general men like to fight for something unattainable; they like to demonstrate their skills. And also in this way the lady keeps her charm. In many cases if the woman is available too soon, the man get bored of her. But of course we should not generalize. It depends on the character, situation and so on.

I have been asked many times by men what is the secret about women, what turns them on and off, especially at the beginning of the relationship.

Some of these tips are quite basic. But it seems that many “good guys” forget about them, and then they ask what they have done. Usually, it’s something so basic that it’s almost embarrassing to say. Women know that it isn’t so much that men intend to be rude or inconsiderate. Sometimes it’s just that they aren’t sure which direction to take… after all, as diverse as women are, they aren’t exactly “easy” to deal with. One thing is certain: two important factors for a possible successful relationship are communication and respect, and it is on that which the following tips are based. But also it should not be forget the existence of physical chemistry.

So, here are some suggestions for making the first dates to have continuous: try them, they may work. But also you should not forget that you also play an important role; it depends also on you. So, here are they:

So, fasten your seat belts! It’s gonna be a bumpy ride!

1. The first step belongs to men.
The first step belongs to men. Women should not do it. Why? In a recent relationship survey it was showed that the majority of broken relations were initiated by women. This doesn’t mean that women have to do nothing. Their role is even more important than that. Before the man to have the initiative to propose something, the woman has to fascinate him. So, every one has to play his role. But we should also understand the situations of some woman that really have to take the initiative. If she really wants to meet the guy, and she doesn’t care about stereotypes, maybe it could be some good exceptions .

2. Be active and interested during the meeting.
During the meeting be interested in her, focus on her, listen and not just talking. When you are together try not to stare at other women. You’ll have time for this with your friends. Dedicate this moment just to you and your partner. Try to remember important dates, such as her birthday, Valentine’s Day and later, your anniversary. On this occasions try to create a romantic atmosphere, do something original, maybe crazy. Try to make her feel important for you. This, of course, if you really want this… Be sincere…

3. Try to forget about Possessiveness.
Until you are really committed in a relationship, neither of you have the obligation to give explanations about how, with whom do you spend time. Possessiveness is a very bad habit, and can easy destroy a relation. Don’t forget, like every human being, the woman has the need of some liberty. If not, she will loose her energy and glamour.

4. Who pays?
It doesn’t seem fair, but this is a universal law. If you respect that woman and you want a long-term relation, it will not bother you that you’ll have to pay the bill. On contrary, you’ll insist. So, again firstly you have to know what you really want.

5. The first call.
Men should do the calling, at least in the beginning. If you are interested, you should call, if not, someone else will. Don’t forget about the men’s role: pursuing. You have to let her know about your feelings. But if you really like her, you’ll do this entire natural.

6. Arrange Dates Early in the Week.
Don’t call her for an invitation in the last minute. This is rude. She can have plans for that time. So, be strategic

7. Sex?
Don’t rush. Don’t get to intimacy on the first date. Men should not propose, and women should not accept. This will come naturally. The mutual respect will be noted and can only serve to enhance the relationship when the time comes. In such a way the pleasure is longer…

8. Treat each other the way you would like to be treated.
Try to be empathetic, try to communicate more, in such a way, both of you will know what to do to make the relationship to grow. Try to treat the person near you, like you would like to be treated, and will happen. You’ll be treated so.

9. Openness and sincerely.
Again, it depends on what you want from that woman. Openness and sincerely are some necessarily items for a serious relationship. Don’t joke on serious matters, if not in other cases it will be hard to convince that you mean it. So, don’t play with jokes in some situations or themes. Be aware of your temptations.

10. Maintain These Points.
If you utilize these suggestions in a serious relationship, you have a great chance to succeed, if of course there is a truly attraction…

Some of these tips only apply to people you are truly interested in getting serious with. Obviously, casual involvements would not require this level of maintenance – but if they’re special and you want them to know it, practice these tips and you could very well be on your way to attaining the relationship of your dreams! Even if this doesn’t happen, it’s a good idea to adopt these “manners,” since it only serves to assist you in accomplishing your relationship goals. Besides, it can only make you look good, and having manners never hurt anyone!

Online Dating Safety Tips

Amaga — Fri, 29 Jun 2007 19:32:48 +0000

One of the possible ways of meeting a lover and a great friend which you find interesting and you can share with him/her your feelings, interests or problems is online dating. Every year a lot of disappointed, single, bored or just interested people make friends, lovers or even get married through online dating agencies. Nowadays this method is used by lots of people and it is believed to be relatively a safe medium. Anyway you need an education about your safety regarding online dating. You may obtain it through your own experience, but it’s quite better to be well-informed beforehand. With this purpose we will try to give you some advice hoping it will be very helpful for you.

Ten Essential Online Dating Safety Tips:

1. Follow your personal instinct
Each of us has a native instinct. It seems to be like an inner warming about the situations that happen around us. The same thing happens when you meet a new person in your life. It may be either online dating or a simple life situation. When we speak about the first circumstances, your instinct begins to work from the very beginning, for example when you read the profile’s nickname, then the personal notes, afterwards online conversations, phone conversations, webcam vision, and in the end meeting face to face. If you feel something strange about you partner or you don’t feel mutual understanding, don’t ignore your inner voice, just find out the dilemma and try to take the right decision!

2. Don’t Afford Personal Information Too Soon
It’s not the best idea to give your home phone number or your full name from the beginning of the communication. Let him/her to discover at first your personality, your qualities, and if the person really means well, then he/she will not insist on asking your personal details. Otherwise nowadays it’s very easy to find out a lot of information by the home phone number or the full name, like the home address, income information, work place, and even the value of your house. So, it’s better to guard your personal information until your personal instinct tells you.

3. Use a Cell Phone or Call Another Computer
When you really do want to have a phone discussion, don’t give the home phone number first. You may use a cell phone number or just use the internet and messengers’ call service such as skype, yahoo msn, icq and others.

4. Use a Free Email Account
Don’t use your formal email address because it may give too much information about you. Make a free email account special with this purpose. You may use mail.ru, email.ro, rambler.ru, yahoo.com, gmail.com, hotmail.com, and many others. Your task is not to give any personal information, including the full name on this account. In this way your safety is ensured from this point of view.

5. Look out of Married People
It’s better for you to know that about 30% of people using online dating are married. So you may probe them in order to find out whether they are married or not. Be very careful because they may go very far in your relationships.

6. Ask for a Recent Photo
It’s absolutely normal to ask the person you are talking to for a recent photo, because in case you want to meet this person, it would be better for you to know beforehand what does he/she looks like. Beside this while you are talking to the person, you automatically combine the physical appearance with inner features, and you form like a whole portrait, in this case is very important to find the right balance because nobody is perfect from all points of view. Sometimes the person may have a wrong photo or some untrue information on the profile. Most of the times it’s not a good sign, but it’s not a rule, and some of these people have good intentions. Maybe they don’t want to be recognized by others because of some reasons.

7. Cute questions
If you put your questions in a clever way, you may conclude some character features of the person you are talking to. For example you may find out whether the person is patient or not; amenable or not very much. You may pay attention to the questions they ignore if there are some. These are questionable characteristics that tell you some more information which you can’t ask directly.

8. Get a Good Security
It seems that some online dating services offer “background checks” and when you want to sign up for such a service it may seem easier to let your guard down. But laws differ in numerous states and there are even such states where checks can’t be efficaciously accomplished. Because people are too little informed, criminals and law-breakers may easily get in. Never let your guard down.

9. Use Paid Online Dating Services
In case of paid services, there are left some personal data, credit card numbers or something else depending on the agency. Free online dating services give more opportunities to dangerous people, impostors which you have to beware of.

10. About Your First Meeting
That’s the most exciting moment and the decisive one. First of all you should select a public place to meet and to make sure that a good friend or a member of your family knows the place and the person you are meeting. You should establish together the place for the first meeting and both of you should agree. It would be better to have your own transportation if it’s possible. Don’t tell too much information about yourself at the first meeting, and if you want to continue let a reason for the next meeting in the end. At this meeting you will discover much more information than you will have expected about this person.

P.S. Following these tips you will make your online dating more successful and safer. Regarding the fact that over 100 people a day get married as a result of online dating, you have great chances to find your partner through online dating agencies.

Should I bring my girlfriend or boyfriend to my house for the Holidays?

Amaga — Wed, 25 Apr 2007 23:38:18 +0000

This is actually a serious matter for all couples, because most holidays are set aside for families only, but if the relationship is that serious than you can consider the girlfriend or boyfriend a family member. I have seen many relationships carry on for years and years and they don’t even bring them over for the Holidays. Some people are more insecure about bringing someone over for special Holidays, me on the other hand enjoy bringing someone I love over to the house so that she can meet my whole family. My whole family does this and it’s something that usually always happens every year someone gets a new girlfriend or boyfriend.
Discussing this situation amongst your family before it happens is probably the best thing to do, because some family members might feel a bit offended to have another person that isn’t involved in the family to come to a Holiday celebration.

Another problem that always seems to happen with someone bringing a partner of theirs over to the house for a Holiday is who is going to bring who? If you are the guy and enjoy being with your family on a certain Holiday than you probably will want to bring your girlfriend over to the house, but if the girl feels the same way, you may have a bit of a problem of your hands. This should be something that is discussed between you and your partner, a long time before the Holiday is even coming up. Perhaps, you can discuss that on one specific Holiday, you will bring your girlfriend, and on another Holiday she will bring you. If you want to be with your family on a specific Holiday, than you should you bring that up with your partner also? If conflicts emerge, than perhaps the time isn’t quite right, if everything is alright than you won’t have many problems at all.