Online Dating Communication: First Impressions and Relationship Development

Posted on 23. Jul, 2007

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Online Dating Communication: First Impressions and Relationship DevelopmentThis week’s edition I decided to speak about the theme of communication, online communication. It doesn’t matter weather is a first impression or a more deep relation, how you communicate is very important. Many of traditional rules apply for online communication too, but although this some aspects should be discussed. So…let’s start.
First impression is very important, especially on dating. Don’t ignore the impression you make on the first date or in other words the first time when your profile is seen. When you make your profile, you should think about what you would like your potential partner to know about you.
Be aware of the message that your profile sends; it should be the one that you really want to be sent. A very important and also decisive aspect of your profile in creating the first impression is the photo. So choose a suitable photo, one that shows your warm and friendly character. But in the same time you should be also natural, sincerely. The photo should not be misleading. Why? Why to create a false image? This won’t help us to find our long-term partner. If you lie from the beginning, this online dating won’t last long, the insincerely will be felt.

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What Did Your Valentine’s Day Gifts Say About You?

Posted on 18. Jul, 2007

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What Did Your Valentine's Day Gifts Say About You?Usually every lover offers a gift for Valentine’s Day. A lot of presents are bought with care and love to fill with joy his or her partner, to express appreciation and love. Everyone thinks about the best choice for a certain person and a right gift on a right time can soften the hearts and make the relationship deeper. Some people buy useful things, the others buy just beautiful things, but they are both welcome. Actually not all the people think about the meaning of the present because they don’t know it. Have you ever heard that every gift tells something about you, and has a certain message for the person you give it to? Now if you read the next passage, you will know it for sure. We hope it will help you a lot in choosing a right present.
Practically The Valentine’s Day is the second-most popular greeting-card-giving occasion, with 180 million Valentine’s Day cards exchanged annually. It’s the easiest and the most popular way to express the feelings in a written way. Cards full of color, lovely pictures and words exchange hands on The Valentine’s Day. About 45 % of lovers celebrate it by taking the sweetheart on a night date. Other popular gifts given on Valentine’s Day are candies – about 35%, flowers – about 33%, gift cards – about 28%, plush gifts – about 25%, perfume/cologne – about 12%, and jewelry – about 8%.
Of course there are some exceptions and not all the presents are given with a real intention, but we will involve those presents which are the most popular are given with all lover’s heart. These are the cards, sweets, and flowers. We hope this will be a helpful point for you to make an easier choice.

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10 Tips to Getting a Second Date and Beyond

Posted on 17. Jul, 2007

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10 Tips to Getting a Second Date and BeyondIt seems that the main problem for singles is not how to meet people but how to maintain the relation after the first dates. How can men keep their manhood without being too dominant? How can women let men know they are interested without appearing too confident?

For many men is a surprise when they learn that even the most called liberated woman says that it is ok and even needed for men to be the one who pursue the relationship, especially in critical beginning steps.

Many women, priding themselves on being independent, understood that this is not so good for a relationship, it is not the way to keep a men interested. Like any other human being, man has to be needed, to be recognized. And how can he feel pleased rather then to offer some specific masculine “services”. So, those too independent women are advised to let men play their role: ex offering their protection or support. But also women should not forget that attaining the unattainable is a sport for many men; it is what drives them.

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Online Dating Safety Tips

Posted on 29. Jun, 2007

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Online Dating Safety TipsOne of the possible ways of meeting a lover and a great friend which you find interesting and you can share with him/her your feelings, interests or problems is online dating. Every year a lot of disappointed, single, bored or just interested people make friends, lovers or even get married through online dating agencies. Nowadays this method is used by lots of people and it is believed to be relatively a safe medium. Anyway you need an education about your safety regarding online dating. You may obtain it through your own experience, but it’s quite better to be well-informed beforehand. With this purpose we will try to give you some advice hoping it will be very helpful for you.

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Want be friends with your ex-partner?

Posted on 02. May, 2007

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Want be friends with your ex-partner?1. Time is the all-important factor. One needs to put the past behind them and feel as if they have moved on to another chapter in their lives. If one person is still in love and wants the relationship to continue, time must separate the two, until that person realises that he or she is moving on in life without the other as a special, intimate companion.

2. No sex please, we are just friends. Don’t even think about sex with the ex. You’ll be back where the troubles all began.

3. Avoid talking with your ex about your old relationship when you are trying to be friends.

4. There may be some attraction left, at least for one of you. Maintain some discipline with each other, especially at the beginning of the friendship. Limit how much time you spend together, how long should phone calls last and what kind of questions are asked.

5. Don’t talk about who you are dating now. – at least not until you are at the point where you are completely comfortable as friends.

6. Avoid the old behavioral patterns that defined your romantic relationship. No holding hands or gazing!

How to determine whether or not you are friends or more than friends

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Love So Sweet

Posted on 25. Apr, 2007

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You woke me from my sleep
and drenched my heart with a love so deep.
When I look into your eyes
I see my reflection,
my feelings for you I do not despise.
You treat me like the princess I should be
by pouring your sweet and sensual love all over me.
When I see you bitting your lip and anxiously trying to kiss me,
I debate in my mind whether or not I should let you taste me.
You stand there all quiet with your sexy body,
and I think in my mind, “Oh, my gosh, what a hottie.”
When I hear you speak, all your beautiful voice does
is make me weak.
I love you for this and
I love you for that,
but you love me for everything and that.

by Jessica Kae Teal

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Should I bring my girlfriend or boyfriend to my house for the Holidays?

Posted on 25. Apr, 2007

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Should I bring my girlfriend or boyfriend to my house for the Holidays?This is actually a serious matter for all couples, because most holidays are set aside for families only, but if the relationship is that serious than you can consider the girlfriend or boyfriend a family member. I have seen many relationships carry on for years and years and they don’t even bring them over for the Holidays. Some people are more insecure about bringing someone over for special Holidays, me on the other hand enjoy bringing someone I love over to the house so that she can meet my whole family. My whole family does this and it’s something that usually always happens every year someone gets a new girlfriend or boyfriend.

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How to determine whether or not you are friends or more than friends

Posted on 22. Apr, 2007

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How to determine whether or not you are friends or more than friendsThis is such a tricky topic, because many people (guys and girls to be exact) normally engage in an intimate moment every now and then, this usually sparks up some commotion of whether or not the two that are “hooking” up are more than just friends. A few things you can do to figure out whether or not you and someone are together are to discuss the facts with each other. If you and the person you are hooking up with have other qualities, then it’s definitely possible to be both mentally compatible along with physically compatible. People who go along the lines of “friends with benefits” know what I am talking about because there usually is mostly physical attraction between the two of you.

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Are you ugly? Some tips to spice up your life.

Posted on 16. Apr, 2007

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Are you ugly? Some tips to spice up your life.Physical attraction is normally everybody’s fear, especially when they are meeting someone for the first time. Let’s get down to business, it’s not naturally all about looks, but it definitely does matter, especially in the intimacy department. If you are a guy and are trying to impress girls, they will come up to you when you least expect it. Obviously some people are more prone to attracting the girls, but that doesn’t mean that you don’t have a chance. Every girl is attracted to whatever type of guys they are into so whether you think you are ugly or not is a cop out in my opinion. Remember that you can always “create” your image. Anyone can make themselves look handsome. One way you can start is by purchasing nice clothes, girls are very into the way guys dress.

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5 Cheap Dates

Posted on 04. Apr, 2007

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5 Cheap DatesYou can have a great, cheap date without thinking money talks. Here are five ideas to impress your date without declaring bankruptcy:

# Rent a Movie
You can duplicate the cinema experience by renting a favorite movie, making popcorn, and dimming the lights. Your date might even appreciate the extra leg room and ability to pause the flick for a restroom break.

# Sip Mocha Lattes
Starbucks can be your best friend when it comes to lounging with your date, shooting the breeze, and sipping your favorite coffee beverage. You might even take your relationship to a deeper level thanks to the coffee talk.

# Share a Sundae on Sunday
Take a trip to your local ice cream store and build a sundae together. You’ll flirt over the toppings and sit close together as you spoon your way to sugar heaven.

# Walk in the Park
Combine exercise and fitness with romance

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20 Date Ideas / tips

Posted on 04. Apr, 2007

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20 Date Ideas / tipsHave a date, but can’t think of a date idea? These twenty ideas should provide all the ammunition you need to plan something special.

1. Play miniature golf
2. Roast marshmallows and make smores
3. Visit a carnival or festival
4. Go disco bowling
5. Watch the sunrise or sunset together
6. Read a book aloud together
7. Take a pottery class
8. Buy the ingredients to make an ice cream sundae, and create it together
9. Go to a comedy club
10. Visit a museum
11. Ascend to the top of the highest building in town
12. Make a picnic in the park
13. Go sightseeing in your own city
14. Attend a sporting event
15. Rent canoes and paddle around the nearest lake
16. Take a cooking class together
17. Go to the zoo
18. Play a board game
19. Bake cookies together
20. Drive to a nearby town you have never visited before

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Tips For Shorter Men

Posted on 29. Mar, 2007

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If you are a shorter man, you may be like the many who face a dilemma when it comes to dating and relationships. You’ve heard that women prefer taller men to shorter guys. And you are not a taller man. Are you frustrated because you are not experiencing the success with women that you know you deserve? Is it because that you are short?

But this can be a very negligible issue. What’s more, many women can actually be powerfully attracted to shorter guys provided you know how to go about making it happen. But the thing is inherent in him that he is short and this can make a man develop low self-esteem, which can lead to poor personal presentation and relationship problems. He may also become bitter or resentful of the women who didn’t find him attractive. All of these factors make it doubly difficult for the short man to form a meaningful relationship.

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10 Important Dating Tips for Men

Posted on 19. Mar, 2007

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Beginning with the saying that “you never get a second chance to make a good first impression” men shall always keep in mind that the first impressions on women are really very important. More that that, they shall be fully prepared to look great on each date they go on. Here below are some tips addressed to men on making an impression that will dwell and bring fruits.

1. Be Fresh
Remember that the first appearance really counts and that women are very sensitive to bad smells, and bad looking. Women are considered the cleanest and the most accurate features in the world. That is why, if you non-intentionally go out on a date, especially to a first date, and you are unshaven, look dirty and smell, this turns to be the worst things you could do. Women will certainly pay attention to how you look and smell and will partly judge you on how hygienic you are. To avoid this, take a bath and make an effort to look and smell nice. It doesn’t cost you much and you shall not allow women assume this is how you are all the time, but allow her see beyond your appearance.

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Online Dating Scam – You Should avoid Yahoo Girls and Hotmail ladies

Posted on 18. Mar, 2007

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Do you think online dating scams only happen to those ladies looking for long term relationship? You are deadly wrong. It happens to everyone, especially YOU. Regardless your sexual orientation; if you are middle-aged male, you are on the romance scammer’s no. 1 favorite target list.

Middle aged males like you are more likely have higher incomes, more assets compared to your younger suitors and more desperate to attract potential mates. They know very well your weakness and they are expert at manipulating your feeling. All their concern about you is your willingness to open your heart to them and later on open your wallet.

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