Dating tip for woman / men

Online Dating: Love at First Byte (PART II)

Amaga — Tue, 22 Jan 2008 05:50:28 +0000

The Way of Being Unique among Other Profiles
First of all you need to make your online profile and it must be great if you want to see good results of it. The first impression people get of you depends on the way you write it. You must upload a nice photo of yourself, the best one you have, make a stress on your positive qualities and be sincere. No double-meanings in your profile, the best would be for you to be direct so that everyone understands you the right way.
Let’s take for example some advices posted by McDermott, the vice president of Match.com:
• Be selective in the information you’re giving. Don’t expose more information than you normally would expose when you first meet someone new. You can expose it after you get to know each other.
• Stand out from the crowd. Your profile should be written in a way that could evoke some thoughts from the persons that read it, thoughts that one can share with you ultimately by the means of email.
• The less the better. You mustn’t give every single detail about you, such as the cruel personality of your boss or all the defects of your last partner.
• Be playful. You must be relaxed and fun. Open-minded, playful people usually are the ones that attract the most, according to Trish McDermott.
Referring to the Safety of Online Dating
In order to make online dating safe for you, make sure the service you’re using allows you to communicate anonymously with people, without necessarily giving out all your contact information. Don’t feel obliged to meet someone if you don’t want to or if you don’t feel yet prepared for it, and when you do it, arrange the meeting in a public place and let some of your friends know what you’re doing. Don’t stick to complicated, long meetings-go to drink a cup of coffee together-thus you will be able to leave as soon as you wish.
Anyone Can Find Love At First Byte
One great factor that influenced the increasing demand of online dating has been the tragedy of September 11, 2001. It made people understand that life is too short to let relationships aside and to waste it on other things. Since this 911 tragedy huge numbers of people using online dating services have been recorded.
Different online dating websites, such as: Match.com, Yahoo Personals, One and Only Internet Personals, Kiss.com have functions that allow one to search for new people, based on different criteria (age, place of living, interests, religion etc.).
The majority of these services charge a fee for being able to answer to other members’ profiles, but they also let you post your profile and photo chargeless. Thus they convince people to register themselves.
Audrey advices everyone to subscribe to such websites for, “thus, you can get matched with the right people”. Besides, anyone can find the right person online, take for example “a senior blind, one-legged and bald man”, as he called himself, who found it on Match.com.

Go back to: Online Dating: Love at First Byte (PART I)

Online Dating: Love at First Byte (PART I)

Amaga — Thu, 13 Dec 2007 05:11:07 +0000

The database of Match.com, a very popular online dating website, includes 3 million customers. There are over 380,000 people, though, wasting $25-100 per year here, trying to find the right person in the network of this online dating service. One of them is Audrey (not her real name).
Audrey says the person she’s looking for should be “confident, intelligent and that he should be himself “. He shouldn’t be one of those men that spend their leisure time on the couch, in front of a TV, not a “military type” and not the type of “pessimistic, depressive people”.

Another Rules for Online Dating
While in the real world, first there is physical attraction and then it leads to really getting to know each other, in the world of online dating, all the rules are reversed: first, people get to know each other emotionally and intellectually, and only then, after meeting offline, they get to know each other physically too.
A good example of this would be the vice president of Match.com itself, Trish McDermott. She has been using her company’s service and has even dated a man she has met on this online dating website for some 2 and a half years. The main advantage of online dating is that you first get to see really meaningful things for you, such as things you have in common, a good sense of humor, life principles and traits of personality. You get to know that person really well until you get to the point when you say, “Hey, I like that. Why shouldn’t I meet him/her?”
A Lot of Choices=More Chances
Audrey, who’s 48, finds online dating the most perfect way of meeting someone for she dislikes getting to meet people in bars and all kinds of parties, not mentioning that she’s not in the age of doing this. She claims she’s sure that sooner or later she’ll find thus “a great man for her”.
Tom (not his real name either) began dating Audrey after meeting her online on Match.com for a few weeks only. He’s fond of online dating too and finds it similar to shopping in a supermarket, “You see the image and style, and you can read the ingredients. And if you decide this is what you’re looking for, you go and “buy” it, that is you send an email”.
During a year, Audrey has met over 100 possible matches online, she talked to them and has met off-line 10, among which a half of them she has dated more than once. “It takes time to do all these things”, she says, “but it’s worth it.”
If you want to date online, start by writing an ad in order to find the type of people you’re looking for, but be aware it’ll take a lot of time to maintain email contact to be able to select matches.

Welcome to Speed Dating-a New Revolution in Relationships

Amaga — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 16:37:05 +0000

Time has become a social problem nowadays, you often hear someone saying, “I don’t have time for this and that”. Unfortunately, this running out of time is being reflected on our personal life too. One of the solutions to this problem is “speed dating” – a new kind of dating, of which the following article will inform you.
Considering the high rate of divorces among the population and the joint between love and marriage, why reckon dating to be sound and problem less?
Let me introduce you the notion of speed dating, the one that allows one to meet up to ten new people in one single evening.
Each date lasts only seven minutes, that’s why speed dating is so different from other typical meetings of new people. Another major difference between them is that, unlike the meeting of singles in bars, for example, people who use speed dating know perfectly well their objective.

The Game Itself
So what does this game of speed dating consist of? It’s very simple. All the participants (all of them should be single) gather in a certain place, it could be a caf?r something like that. They pair up and begin their dates. The subjects of their conversations exclude their careers and home addresses.
These conversations last only seven minutes each and, at the end of them, the couples are paired differently and the next seven-minutes-dates begin.
After every date finishes, all the speed daters answer on a card to the question whether they would like to meet their date again. And if this interest is reciprocal, the organizers give the telephone numbers to the daters.
Some Words About the Origin of Speed Dating
For the first time, speed dating was organized by Rabbi Yaacov Deyo in 1999, it being based on a Jewish tradition meant to prevent the Jewish singles from marrying people of other faiths except theirs. It consisted of gatherings of young Jewish people. Next, this kind of tradition spread all over the globe.
Speed dating easily substitutes the blind dates and bar scenes, it is much more interesting and resentful.
What Are the Results of Speed Dating?
The results of these speed dates were absolutely positive for approximately half of the speed daters. Some people might say that it’s pretty boring to repeat the same quick conversations several times during the same evening, but it is considered that there also is another reason responsible for the success of the date, that is physical attraction or chemistry, you might call it.
One disadvantage of this new form of matchmaking is that seven minutes is quite a short time to get to know someone. Sometimes, people whom we reject after these seven minutes of speed dating could easily be right for us if we knew them better.
And vice versa-you might have been impressed and enraptured of someone you’ve dated for seven minutes, but after a longer time of knowing each other you realize that this Mr. or Ms.Right is not really as it seems.
In spite of this, speed dating is becoming more and more popular nowadays, achieving new and new points. Could this be a new revolution?

Online Dating: Tips for Meeting Someone Online

Amaga — Tue, 18 Sep 2007 05:02:16 +0000

There are situations in life that make us realize it is quite difficult meeting new people now than it used to be. When you are already mature, have adult children that have left home and loneliness is pressing you all the time, you want to find a perfect mate for you. You even dream at your relationship with him/her in your lonely nights. It’s then that you understand that it’s hard for one to meet people between work and home, and if you are looking forward having a serious relationship, you must exclude bars and all things of that sort.

Well, you shouldn’t get desperate and lose hope, because the right person for you is out there, looking for you too. The only problem is to find him/her, but that implies taking risks. And, yes, there are ways of solving this situation.
Online dating services might be one of them. Today, there are a lot of legitimate, trustful online dating sites that have solved this problem for many people. Still, before giving too much of your information online, consider how much time have you known or how much have you talked to that person, think about it twice and be conscious that there is enough danger out there. “The one” might be “not the one” after all, even with all our efforts to think the contrary. So, be cautious when dating online.
When you still set out a real date with an online potential “friend”, set it out in a public place and, if it is possible, don’t come alone. Ask a friend or a member of the family to join you in case your date doesn’t turn out as it should. Apart from all that you were said, you might have no idea of who is on the other side of the computer.
Another way of meeting new people, besides online dating, would be to join special classes. This could be cooking or sport classes.
And one more thing is that you should remember: dating someone implies having fun and enjoying the company of your partner most of all, so never forget it.

For Sex Tonight, Which is the Best Online Dating Site?

Amaga — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 19:34:35 +0000

If your aim is to find a real partner, with whom you could have sex tonight, you will not be satisfied by free or second best online dating sites, but only by the really best online dating site. You MUST choose the top one.

My aim here is to let you know about what this best site is (I prefer it for all the rest of the sites), unlike other so called dating sites you have already tried and that, obviously, have let you unsatisfied on all the plans while also taking your money.
First of all, you must know that dating sites are only business and money is the main factor here. Nobody will be that kind as to get you laid for free, there is no magic and no free fairy sex mothers. A so called free online dating site will charge you later anyway, and, more of all, let you frustrated and sexually unsatisfied.
I personally consider that the members of the best online dating site should have only one thing in mind: that is to get sex. Possibly, a stable relationship, love or marriage later, but the first aim of all of them should be to get laid.
Once we have settled that, let’s continue with some basic preparations for you don’t want any high discussions about art or sciences with the members of the service tonight, do you? All you want is to have sex tonight.
The first one: uploading a high quality picture of yourself is absolutely NECESSARY if your aim is to attract a lot of hot-looking members of the opposite sex. Now the best options would be for people to see you naked or well-dressed in the photo, nothing in between!
An advice for the guys: it’s a lot better if instead of muscle shirts, you would wear NO shirts at all. Or just be dressed up in some elegant classy clothes. The best of all would be no clothes at all, but that comes only with the condition if you are in excellent shape and have a nice body to show. Besides, that will also show that you are brave since you did it and women will adore you.
And, finally, the same advice comes for women: you will be swimming in men’s attention if you upload NAKED PICTURES of you on the site. You will be looked for day and night, believe me. That will be an advantage for you when you will come to choose from all these countless men.
So let all the low quality dating sites aside, log on to the best online dating site that exists today and enjoy sex tonight.
This is the site I’ve been talking about and which I recommend you to visit: datingsites2.com

Online Dating Nightmares

Amaga — Thu, 06 Sep 2007 17:20:12 +0000

It was not before a guy had set me a meeting at a bar that my godsister had told me everything she thought about the guys who dated online. I was told that they were not normal, not in their minds and so on, but I figured out the next question, “Why not?” Just because they date online doesn’t mean they don’t walk the streets like all people do, for example. Why can’t I go out with someone I’ve met over the Internet? I can go out with someone whose number I’ve got at a party, in the street or at a mall, can’t I? Anyway, when I started getting online, my intentions weren’t to find a date. All I wanted was to find people to chat with, that’s why I joined an Online dating service and a popular college websites. These online conversations were too changeable: one minute, they were good dreams and the next one, they were nightmares…
Nightmare #1: The name I put him is “Bird”. He was the first guy from the Internet I met. It seemed to me that this man was perfect, I mean he was not only looking great-6’5 tall, brawny and with a smooth skin – he was also working in a record company, and, of course, had to do with a lot of celebrities. He even had photos with almost everyone uploaded on his site. Our first common interests included music as I used to like writing music. Now wasn’t he cool? And then, one day, on my way to work, I met him. He caught my attention because of his height. We have recognized each other and then we smiled. At that time, I was convinced it was fate that has made us meet accidentally in this huge Chicago after two whole months of chatting online and not having set a single date till then. When I have seen him, I raised up my arms and then he spoke to me. I couldn’t believe the disappointment of hearing his squeaky, bird-like voice, but I decided to ignore it. We didn’t converse too long for we were both hurried and decided to set up a date in the future the next time we talk on the phone. The next time I saw him was at a Ludacris concert and the fact that it was accidental the second time made me even more convinced in my thoughts that we were meant for each other. We talked again, now on the crowded dance floor, and then I noticed that he had a lashing mouth, that he was too complaining about everything and, besides, he walked with a switch. While he was admiring with loud voice the way I was dressed, my only thought was when he was going to understand that he was gay.
Nightmare #2: The name of the second guy I met will be “Bath”. All I knew about him was that he worked as a deejay, liked his work a lot and was promising, and that he had graduated from Southern Illinois University. He had a nice neat haircut, he was wearing a cool leather brown jacket and I also liked his teeth. I gave him my phone number after some empty conversations, because I was somehow attracted to him. The next two hours I was called by him four times, which set me off a little, but I ignored it for I thought it was a natural thing for him to want to set a date. We set it in front of Old Navy and decided to go to Portillo’s. Was it a coincidence that while I was waiting for him, I saw there two guys I was once dating, two old friends of mine? I don’t know. I figured out I shouldn’t be that rude as to drive them away and, besides, as I was afraid Bath wouldn’t look like in the photos he sent me, my intention was to ask them to hang around, just in case. But we only exchanged our phone numbers, to be able to keep in touch, and they left. Some time later, Bath had come, tapped me on the shoulder and stopped. He was shorter and bigger than I had expected, but he was good-looking anyway. I realized immediately why he wanted to be a deejay – he liked to run his mouth as water in a bathtub. After we got to the restaurant, he ordered his food, not saying a word about me, paid it to the cashier and when the last one asked him if he wanted to order something else, he simply said, “No”, took his food, sat down and began to eat it in front of me. I could never understand why a man, after inviting a woman to a date, would act like this. His answer to my staring was an amiable invitation “to have some of his fries, if I wanted, because he could see I was hungry”, to which I said, “No” and left. I went to a good friend and got my meal for FREE an hour later. When I got home, the first thing I did was to block his e-mail address, delete him from my friends list and change my phone number.
Nightmare #3: The third guy will be called “Car”. I knew from his words that he was working in a music company, actually he was its co-owner. We talked a few times about hip-hop and then he invited me to a reggae party of his in a club, where I had come with two of my girls. When the deejay announced him, I immediately recognized him, besides, because he was looking like in the photo he gave me. He, in his turn, didn’t know who I was and didn’t recognize me not even after me having approached him to tell that the party was great. All he did was thank me and dance with one of my girls. The next day, he sent me a message and I told him that the girl dressed in maroon at the party last night was me, at what he seemed surprised and set me a date again the next weekend. I found out he was from Bronx and the next moment, he said he didn’t like my real name and that he would prefer to call me “Shorty”. It really turned me down. He told me his life-story about how he left New York, because he wanted to take care of his mother who had suffered a bus accident, that he returned four months later with nothing, because he didn’t take his clothes with him when he left New York and other typical lies. I couldn’t understand why someone would leave to another state without any of his stuff. It means he must have been on a run. What he also did was to claim me as his girlfriend (but we never even kissed), try to make me his taxicab and even tell me he didn’t like my personality, because it intimidated him. How could I have stayed longer with him? Let’s see the next step-Dream # 1…
Dream #1: “Seat” is his name, but, unlike the other guys, he was a good one, that’s why it’s hard for me to call him Nightmare #4. We went to a movie together, then he took me to a restaurant. But the day we went out on a date was precisely Car’s birthday and I was still a little confused about him. Another thing that stopped me from liking Seat was that, when we hugged at the end of the date, he groped my butt, which immediately made me realize what was on his mind.
Nightmare #5: After having to face so many disappointments with the first four “online matches” – Bird, Bath, Car and Seat, it was a little bit hard for me to get back to online dating. This is when I wrote my Top 35 Turn-ons and Turn-offs, with my tolerate-s and not tolerate-s, and let other members of the Online dating service see my page. There was a reply to my posting of the list from a guy, with whom we have had some discussions on instant messenger too. I’ll call this guy “Fat”. Once, I was talking to him on instant messenger and I was going to take a shower, so I told him that I was going to take a break and what I was taking it for. What was my surprise (and let me tell you, my very unpleasant surprise) when I came back in some half of an hour, and he told me it took me too long to take it and that he didn’t know I was fat. For the next half an hour I have fought with him online about his words, and then he told me that it simply was a joke. A week later, we had set out for a date on the beach. That walk on the beach is probably the worst experience I’ve ever had. First he told me that the polish on my toenails was dirty, then he complained about the sand getting on his shoes, then he told me about the mother of his child whom he called fat and about him trying to get custody of his child, and when his telephone rang, like it wasn’t enough, he jumped. In addition, on our way back, the moment I jumped from a rock to another, he made the smartest observation of all that he heard the Earth move. Now that was the last drop, it was a very great offense, because not only was I weighing 145 lbs., but my instructor told me not only once that I was in great shape. It became more obvious than ever that if he tells me these things when I am comfortable with my weight, the day I really gain it, he would be a real jerk. It was no wonder that when we got in silence to his car and he wanted to hug me, I’ve just put out my hand, at what, surprisingly, he looked disappointed. Did he really expect I would thank him for all that he’s said to me?! That same night, we talked by instant messenger, full of arguments about his attitude. At that moment I’ve come to think I would never meet a bigger jerk than him…
Not until I’ve met Nightmare #6-the so-called “Gap”, because he had a gap in his two front teeth. I thought he was absolutely gorgeous from his photo, but when I saw him, I realized he was shorter, he had a bullet wound on his cheek and his white t-shirt was as long as a gown. Still he was good-looking, I would have given him an eight on a scale of 1-10. The next moment, I found out he had a child with a woman, and that he had problems with seeing him, a fact which only reminded me of Fat. I was ready to turn him down, but I felt like his personality was so much like mine and we went out for a couple of more great dates to different shows, at his and my houses and at my favorite place in front of Lake Michigan. We even sat up at nights, watching stars and drinking wine. It was then that I’ve come to think I’ve found the right guy. And then, one of those nights, I found out from him that he was an ex-drug dealer; that the mother of his son was possibly pregnant with another child of his; that his mother was psychotic; his father was living with him, because he was an alcoholic and was fired from his job; and that his sister was deadly ill with some kind of disease. Plus to this, he asked me money for a bus card and for a cell phone, to which I fired him soon enough.
These were my six nightmares and I think they served me as a lesson for good. That was really enough for me. But when I come to think about that guy I’ve met on the other site…

Give Online Dating a Try

Amaga — Tue, 04 Sep 2007 04:15:54 +0000

Unlike dating some years ago, when people were usually introduced to each other at parties or by common friends, and time was the one to decide if these people were meant to be together or not, dating nowadays is completely different.
Today you can be introduced new people by common friends just by using online dating services. And this kind of dating is even more successful than dating by using conventional methods, a fact proved recently by a lot of people.
I can give me and my wife as an example of it – we have met online and it was a perfect place for us to get to know each other. Of course, there are also exceptions from every rule, but it is worth trying, believe me.

Internet searching will for sure find a lot of online dating services. Some of them may be free, some may be not, but there will be no problem for you to choose one.
Now these are some of the reasons that make online dating a great experience:
Security
There are people who, on being online, pretend to be someone they’re not or people whose only aim is to cause harm or unpleasantness for other people. It’s a very common thing. Fortunately, online dating services can help one in this case, because they have special systems that allow abusive people with inadequate behavior to be reported and even banned. There even are some services that have member verification systems that check out if the people are really who they say they are.
Openness
Being honest and open with someone whom you don’t even know seems to be a problem for many people, because they are afraid of being turned down or too confident.
Online dating, in its turn, does not imply facing to face certain people. Being anonymous makes people a lot more open and honest. When these online conversations get serious, which happens sooner than in usual dating, they help one to decide whether the person one talks to is a right or a wrong one.
Affordable
When you come to think about how many times you would have gone out with a person before knowing him/her, you get to understand how affordable is online dating. During online dating, you get to know the person by online conversations, email and even telephone. That’s why it can’t even be compared to dating in person.
It is a great advantage to meet a lot of new people online, because it’s only you who decides what speed things must take and it’s also up to you to decide the best way for you to get to know people, and you save a lot of money besides that.
There are a lot of online dating services where you may sign up and become a member for free, without any type of charge. Exceptions might be sending emails or private messages to other members which might require some money. Now this is a great disadvantage, first of all, for men, because it’s usually them who spend more money on emails and private messages. Women usually are much more favored from this point of view.
Safety
Dating online does not necessarily imply revealing all your personal information. It’s only your choice – you can reveal it whenever you like and whenever you feel like the person you’re talking too is trustworthy.
No More Rejection
Many men get to face uncomfortable situations when, after asking women out, they get to be rejected. Online dating is a totally non-committal way of meeting new people, talking to them without facing the possibility of being rejected and turned down, because chatting online does not imply any kind of nerves or fears.
There are a lot of good parts in online dating for women too. They easily get to know people online, find out more about them by online conversations or email and can decide whether these persons share the same life values as they do. It’s a very easy and comfortable way of picking out the right people and weeding out the wrong ones.
In any case – if you’re looking for a perfect match or not – online dating is fun and represents a great way of finding new friends or pen-pals.

African Americans and Interracial Dating: Who’s Dating Whom?

Amaga — Wed, 29 Aug 2007 18:27:17 +0000

Important change is said to be occurring according to TV Programming Shows.
When it comes to interracial dating and marrying for African Americans, an important difference is being made between women and men. This gender difference is actually quite substantial and it seems to be changing. The changes frequency is increasing in the last few years, it being especially proved by popular television programs.

This gender imbalance felt by African American women when dating and marrying people of different races is still substantial according to 2000 Census. All these facts, including the one to say that it is harder for African American women to find men to date and to marry, most of all because of the gender imbalance, have been thoroughly discussed in magazines and popular daytime shows.
It says that African American men were more likely to date and marry white women than African American women were to date and marry white men. According to the statistics, the couples where the husband was black and the wife was white composed circa 73 percent of African American/white interracial couples, because the percentage of African American women having white husbands was 2 (1/2) times less than the percentage of African American men having white wives. More than that, in unmarried African American/white couples living together, this percentage was even five times less.
According to the annual Current Population Survey reports published by the Census Bureau, after the 2000 Census has been issued, the number of white husband/African American wife couples was higher than before, but all these statistics were in the same time too little reliable for they were based on too small sample sizes. There has been made a small survey of college students who have also proved that there is a shift in the gender balances of African American/white interracial couples.
The survey was made among the students of 629 East Carolina University. They had completed an anonymous questionnaire based on the students willingness to have an interracial relationship. The number of those who were open towards this kind of relationship was almost a half of the students, among them nearly one-fourth that were already involved in an interracial relationship. More than that, ninety-two of those who had already had experience with this kind of relationships were not against repeating the experience. Even if there were more African Americans than whites who were eager to accept an interracial relationship, still there were no important gender differences between the students who were open to African American/white interracial relationships and those who were not.
If popular culture is to be considered a reflection of its participants experience, then why not revise a few television programs that promote interracial dating and marriage, especially with African American wife/white husband couples? Let’s look through some of them…
Let’s remind ourselves of the so much popular Friends series. In some episodes at the end of the series, there are two white men (Joey and Ross, the last one being Jewish) who dated an African American beautiful woman, an anthropologist by profession. In the end, she goes back to the white university professor she was dating before dating Joey. In the Firefly series, by Joss Whedon, which were shown first on Fox and then on SciFi channel, prior to the hit movie Serenity, there was a couple, where the wife, Zoe, was an African American kick-butt right-hand-’man’ to the Captain and the husband, Wash, was a white man, Firefly’s pilot. And in the so much criticized and well-known series of Lost, its viewers were shocked when the African American woman Rose’s husband, Bernard, was found alive and, besides all, he was found to be white too! And when you come to think that there were a lot of viewers who were almost sure Bernard to be an African American…
Another popular show, a Fox’s medical show, House, M.D., in its second season now, has shown a few interracial couples in its episodes. In “Maternity” of Season One, there was a funny scene with an African American woman working intensely and her white husband, who, because of an epidemic in the hospital, was turned away from it. In Season Two there is another episode that shows us an interracial couple of a white man and an African American wife. Apparently, she is very stressed by the loss of her husband’s ability of expressing himself verbally. And in the series of Supernatural, a new hit shown on Bothered is also an episode where one of the two white male main characters remembers a girl, whose mother was white and whose father was an African American, with whom he used to have an interracial relationship a time before. There are absolutely no racial differences shown in these episodes, all we see is just a nice and loving relationship between the two of them.
In conclusion, the entire previous example have proved us that race in a relationship is a non-issue. The couples of African American females and white males were not shown as tragic, heroic or melodramatic, but simply as normal relationships. This is a significant shift from the interracial relationships so-much portrayed a few years ago, where the male was African American and the female was white. Is this the end or the story is to be continued more on? We can only hope so and wait to see what happens next, so just stay tuned…

Dating a Former Beauty Queen

Amaga — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 05:28:22 +0000

Probably the worst, and in the same time, the best thing that has ever happened to me was to fall in love with an ex-beauty queen. Her beauty was faded, but she never forgot her “good times” of glory. She knew perfectly well how to make a man happy by causing him pleasure and in the next second she could bring him pain and make him the unhappiest man in the world. She was the master of pleasure and pain, and she also had impressive life experience and wisdom, which I was willing to share too.

She had traveled a lot all over the world, knew all about the etiquette and followed it, and she was a gourmet. I could only be delighted and hypnotized just being next to her for she was a woman of very high culture. She was also very good in bed; there was nothing she wouldn’t do for you if only you asked her. When I asked her where she had learn all that, she told me that she was taught by many rich playboys and also that she has been a member of the jet set when she was young.
I am an independent and rich man, with a lot of opportunities and desires. One of them is to have near me a woman who could stimulate, and there is nothing better for me than spend time having sexist doesn’t matter the time of the day. But this doesn’t mean I will be submissive to anyone, because I think that in a couple, both the partners must know how to give and how to take. I do both of the things and want my partner to do the same.
A former beauty queen that has lost her beauty and is too stubborn to deny it is the worst kind of woman a man can meet. There were times, of course, when she was powerful and could do all she wanted with men for they were ready to satisfy every whim and wish of hers. If they didn’t do it, her bedroom wouldn’t be open for them anymore. But every thing has its end on earth and if the beauty queen doesn’t understand that her time has gone and if she doesn’t use it in her own interests, she will remain alone for good.
If you have ever played poker, you must for sure know that you can’t stay in the game with a bad hand, because you will lose the game. You must play the game when you have a good hand, only then you can win. There is wisdom in this game, because these are life’s rules too. There are some famous words from a song that say: “You got to know when to hold and know when to fold” – these lyrics are valid for faded beauty queens. It’s time for them to fold.

Why Use Online Dating

Amaga — Tue, 14 Aug 2007 05:55:30 +0000

The question should be put like this:”Why not use online dating?” The majority of single people nowadays are too busy and too occupied to be able to constantly meet new people and find someone to date with. Their lifestyles include too little spare time for this, because they work more and more, they spend a lot more time than before trying to keep fit and so on.
This kind of meeting new people, Internet dating, has become very frequent all over the UK today and there are more and more people who have a positive attitude towards it. Singles are no longer so scared when it comes to dating web sites or dating events. The members of such communities are no longer only people in their 40s and up or desperate people who don’t like to go out much, there are more open-minded singletons that realize all the good parts of online dating.

What’s the Big Deal?
There are a lot of benefits online dating sites can bring and online dating should no longer be considered a desperate method of meeting new people.
What’s the big deal anyway in attending a club of singletons with whom you can get in touch any time? There is absolutely nothing bad in it! Besides, it’s very safe, for you’re not obliged to give away your personal email addresses, telephone numbers and so on; it takes you very little time, especially if you know how to type quickly, and it takes just some minutes to write messages or send short emails. And when you come to think, there are so many chances for the recipient of your message to be a possible future date of yours! Now, isn’t that great?
Isn’t it better than going out to bars and finding people who can be already engaged or face failures when finding out you have met the wrong person? It’s easier, because you don’t even have to leave the house!
Does Internet Dating Really Work?
Yes, yes and one more time yes! Hundreds and thousands of singles all over the globe, involved in online dating, have proved for themselves that it’s a good thing and it really works. Believe it or not, you can easily be one of them!
It really doesn’t have any importance where and how you meet new people as long as you do meet them. Be the result of your dating online what it is, you will surely make some new friends there, even if you won’t find the one you’re looking for. So, it’s better for you not to make illusions to obligatory find that perfect someone, for it may not happen too.
Just keep an open mind, get to know new people and have a lot of fun!