Conclusion To: Male and Female Brain Differences and How They Affect Dating
Posted on 06. Aug, 2007 in Dating Tips, Relationships Advice
One of the main differences between men and women is that men are considered to be the more aggressive of the two sexes, if not the only aggressive sex. Now this is wrong, because not only men have aggressive circuits-women had them too, except that they use them in a different way. When resolving a conflict, a man will want to resolve it by physical power, women would resolve it by talking or even by applying psychology. They would more frequently use the phrase “stop being selfish” than actually try to dominate by using physical power. This thing can be explained by the fact that men’s sex and aggression centers are larger than women’s. Moreover, if our society would have been totally led by women, there would be verbal and psychological manipulation instead of physical force. But nowadays, this age of physical domination (6000bc to 2000ad ?) is coming to an end, as we see more and more men using persuasion in politics or business. Women are beginning to attain power. But, of course, even during this age of physical domination, there were exceptions. There had existed matriarchal societies, but, unfortunately, very little is known about them.
Body Language is a very important skill, which a man needs to develop, unlike women who have always been masters at this and also at mimicry and at the tone of their voice-these skills are natural and normal in them. That’s why when a man wants to be successful at women and in dating, he should be able to keep up with women at what body language, voice tonality, facial expression and so on mean.
Many times both men and women expect their partners to behave like them and even try to change them, which isn’t right at all and which is, besides, all in vain. To change your partner implies changing his/her brain structure that differentiates men and women. These basic brain functions can never be changed, even if new skills are acquired and there is desire to change them. We have to accept that men and women are very different: women like to talk much, men often don’t like to spend too many words; women put romance above all, men put sex above all. All these tendencies are just a normal state of things.
Men and women are so different that even when one sex beats the opposite one in something, it doesn’t matter in what-when men beat women in etiquette or when women beat men in computer games, the parts of the brain used, which are responsible for these functions or functions alike, differ at men and women. There has been done an experiment: the brains of both men and women doing IQ tests have been scanned and the results have revealed that even with the same tests results, females use different aspects of their brain to solve the same problems as men.
Do what we do, the two sexes will always remain as they are: opposite and different, so we should accept this and respect this difference for developing good and successful relationships and that includes dating too.
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